Hot Real Couple Porn

A friend just alerted me to a great site for real couple porn videos

Comstock Films

Features real couples having sex and talking about it and their relationships. You have to buy the DVDs (for a modest $30) but you can check out the previews on the site. It's pretty fucking hot.

From their about us:
Comstock Films offers a genuinely new vision of couples' sexuality in this groundbreaking and award-winning series of explicit documentary-style features of real-life lovers having real sex.

and on an interesting side note on how Comstock Films was named:

The real Anthony Comstock was a prude of the first order, but he was also a man who knew how to get things done. In 1866 he formed the New York Society for the Suppression of Vice, and by 1873, had succeeded in getting the U.S.Congress to pass the "Act of the Suppression of Trade in, and Circulation of, Obscene Literature and Articles of Immoral Use" commonly known as "The Comstock Act".

The Comstock Act was used to suppress erotic art and literature (Comstock boasted about the number of "libertines" that he had driven to suicide,) as well as making the distribution of birth control information a crime. In 1914, women's reproductive health pioneer Margaret Sanger was prosecuted under the Comstock Act, with Anthony himself in attendence.

Anthony Comstock is widely acknowledged as history’s greatest censor. As a special, unpaid Postal Inspector for the U.S. government, he was responsible for the destruction of an estimated 160 tons of literature and photos. Among the destroyed material were novels now considered masterworks of the English language, information on birth control, and medical text books. In addition to his campaign against all materials that addressed sex, Comstock also campaigned against modern art and literature, which he labeled “impure.” Nearly 100 years after his death, the ghost of Anthony Comstock still casts a long shadow over our cultural and sexual landscape.

Comstock Films is founded in memory of Anthony Comstock, and dedicated to using film to celebrate the freedoms and pleasures he fought so hard to suppress. We are pleased to offer explicit films that revel in the pleasures of sexual relations between consenting adults. We hope that viewing our films, either alone or with a loved one, will move you to revel in the pleasure of your own sexuality.

Lurid Digs

Ok, I know there is a lot of gay porn-related content featured on this blog but I just couldn't resist posting a link to one of my new favorite sites: Lurid Digs.com


The site features photos of gay men with the contributors discussing the hilarious and horrifying interiors in which the photos were shot.

Bonus points for featuring sextress diva Heather Corinna from Scarleteen, an online sex advice site for teens and young adults, as a contributor.

This site satiates my loves of interior design and cock shots all rolled into one hilarious romp through the ugly bedroom!

This might turn you off to men for a short time so be prepared.

Let's talk about facials

Facials (that is dudes jizzing on a ladies face, did you really not know that?) are a hot topic of conversation on feminist blogs these days. Personally, I find it problematic when people start labeling personal acts as progressive vs non-progressive or feminist vs anti-feminist. It's always bad when people start telling others that they aren't feminist because they enjoy being degraded in bed or they're a bad feminist because they shave their arm pits. Some people like weird stuff in bed. Who knows where those impulses and desires come from? Fantasies and sexual desires shouldn't be policed. As long as everyone is consenting and having fun, I don't see what the problem is.

Amanda Hess at The Washington City Paper's The Sexist blog argues similarly:

"Of course, that doesn’t mean that enjoying performing or receiving facials means that you hate women, or that you have no self-respect, or that you’re a bad feminist. It just means that the patriarchy affects a lot of the things that we perform and enjoy on a daily basis, and it’s good to remember that our attempts to recast these acts as “empowering” isn’t so much transgressive as it is convenient."

And yet, I cringe at her conclusion that reclaiming acts as empowering doesn't really make them so. Is there no way to make traditionally sexist stuff empowering or at least not sexist anymore? Has feminism not yet brought us to the point where women can be honest about their desires and not be labeled as being into sexist sex acts? Are facials in porn degrading because some dudes get off on that and most porn is made for male audiences (here's where I plug PoolBoy Magazine)? Are facials that happen between loving partners still degrading? And what's so wrong with being degraded once in awhile anyway? Some women like being degraded (check out The Piano Teacher by Elfriede Jelinek for an interesting fictitious read on sexual degradation). And some men do too if the successful employment of many dommes is any indication.

Who is to say what is patriarchal in bed and what is not? Does the dude being on top mean missionary position is not a feminist position? Please don't tell me doggy style is not feminist approved. You might as well just shoot me in the face (ha ha!). Sex is sex. And while I'm not personally into porn where degrading facials are the grand finale, some women and men partake in facials in their private sex lives and still respect each other in the morning. Women getting off on pleasing their male partners isn't a bad thing. There just better be some serious cunnilingus in return, if you ask me.

In the end I do love how Hess compares facials to marriage:

"See, facials are like weddings. We all know that the institution of marriage is one of the patriarchy’s all-time greatest hits, in which women are sold into sexual slavery from father to husband in exchange for livestock. And yet, who derives the greatest joy from weddings? Women! It’s the craziest thing. But even though we all know that weddings were clearly institutionalized to facilitate the willing subjugation of women, feminists figure out a way to do it anyway. Why? Probably because even though we all know it’s sexist as fuck, weddings—like facial ejaculation—still make some people happy. And feminists deserve to be happy, too."

Marriage is a sexist institution, yes. Does that mean that you aren't a good feminist if you get married? Nope. Just like you can still let a dude blow his load in your face and be feminist as fuck.